Friends

hey guys, been really busy with rew so havent really updated. not tt there is anyone still reading my blog. well ive really been thinking abt friends recently and im really puzzled by how close i am with friends cos im like getting mixed signals from friends tt i thought i was really close to? well i have sort of always catagorized my different tiers of friends into arnd 5 tiers.

Fifth Tier: The hi and bye friends tt u see arnd sch and have only talked to them arnd once or twice. those u can talk to if u sit down with tt person but nv got the opportunity to talk so cant say tt we are close or anything. more than an acquaintance, less than a friend

Fourth Tier: Just friends tt i can talk to but not really often. pple tt i usually dont hang with but when u get us tgt i can talk for hrs. its just lower than the third tier just because of the lack of opportunities to talk

Third Tier: heres the start of the better friends. this is the group of friends who i will talk to and we usually have opportunities to talk but we just have fun chatting but we dont really have the closeness tt ill feel comfortable telling u who i like or wads serious probs im going through in my life

Second Tier: these friends are the second best friends tt i have. they are the pple tt i totally trust and can really talk to them. however, there is just something missing tt keeps us from having tt really comfortable closeness tt i can say anything and do anything and it wont be misinterpreted. so there is still a certain level of discretion needed for these friends but are still close nonetheless.

First Tier: this is where all the pple tt i treat as friends tt i can talk to when im troubled and friends tt i noe i can always trust fall. the closeness is usually telling when u can hug or lean against each other without being awkward and there are only a few pple tt i have this closeness to. these friends are those tt i treasure the most (not tt i dont treasure the other tiers) and are the ones tt im usually see hanging out with. they are the group of pple tt i can have no discretion in wad i say or wad i do cos i noe it wont be misinterpreted.

the actual prob with my friends is usually between the top 3 tiers. pple tt i thought to be in the second tier can sometime seem to be in the third tier. or even first tier pple seem like second tier. its just really confusing and i sometimes dont noe how to act with them cos wad if they treat me as a third tier friend while im treating them as a second tier one. my tiers are usually depicted by the tier i am in with other pple cos im the type of person tt will treat others how they usually treat me. so its weird sometimes when a person treats me like a second tier friend all the while and suddenly treats me like a third tier one. its ust really really confusing. ill let u guess which tier u guys are in.

well tts it for my mini rant. gonna sleep now. got tuition at 7.30am tmr. cyas:)